請相信愛情- 執子之手 與子偕老

分享一個真實感人的故事給大家

幾周前ㄚ蝦的MSN space寫到他三十三歲的朋友因大腸癌去世
我好奇的上網查了背後動人的愛情故事 讓我掉了眼淚
Google”楷瀛“ 在網路上找到他的BLOG

以下節錄自楷瀛丁丁樂癌日記
照片可以參考不列顛後花園

2005年的6月3日
我們在 台北相遇 隔日他返回英國
我與小英相遇那天，很奇怪的我們兩人對彼此都有種說不上來的感覺，感覺好像相識很久，
在彼此的身邊，很安心，很舒服，很快樂。
透過他室友跟我交換的名片 在隔四天後 他email給我
之後我兩透過internet 傳情意
我在台灣 他在倫敦 網路無國界 拉近的我兩的距離

2006 10 月訂婚

2007
發病過程
我與2/28 肚絞痛 3/11 送進醫院急診 已是 很嚴重其實 於去年九月健檢 我的CEA指數(驗大腸癌的癌症腫瘤標記) 屬於正常 (後來看報導. 有 20%的人 是驗不出CEA指數上昇 就算你有癌症) 而我因怕痛 也沒做那免費的大腸鏡檢查 / / 到了十二月 某天夜裡 睡覺時 肚子絞痛的讓我在床上滾來滾去痛得要命我以為是我吃壞肚子 而隔日早晨也就不痛 後來我也不以為意就這樣 每隔十天 會在夜裡痛一次十二月與二月 我都赴英國去探親小英，我也是每隔幾天就腹痛，因為肚痛 心情脾氣就不太好小英常以為我是以肚痛藉故發脾氣，但現在小英很痛恨自己當初為什麼沒帶我去看醫生......

愛的誓言
之前當我知道自己病情嚴重，我要Tim離開我，因為不想拖累他時，他對我說
I will not walk away from you. 我會堅守我的誓言，我絕不會離開你
I will take you , to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

我很幸運的有位這樣愛我的老公

～～對一個人好很容易，永遠對一個人好很難！～～
如果你已經找到你生命中的Mr. Right，
請珍惜、善待你(妳)身邊的他(她)，
因為他絕對會是你一生中最值得的對待。
如果要你永遠對一個人好很難！
那麼請牢記這段誓詞吧！
「永遠」就會變得再也不難。

楷瀛
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2007 12 27 結婚

2008 7 12 在英國去世

我在Kai的Facebook檔案 看到她先生Tim (小英)留下的一段話

2008/7/15
Kai was a fantastic woman and a wonderful wife and I'm deeply sad to see her pass away.
Not only did she inspire me with her strong-mindedness, kindness and love, but she's also touched more people than she will ever realise with her courageous fight against cancer.

She passed away peacefully in her sleep at 11:20am GMT on Saturday 12th July with me, my mother, father and step-father by her side. Sadly, her mother and auntie didn't arrive in the UK until 7:15pm later that evening.

The nurses at the Phyllis Tuckwell care home where she passed away said she will be remembered by everyone that came into contact with her during her five day stay there. The care they gave to Kai was nothing short of amazing - words cannot describe the professionalism, sensitivity and dignity displayed by all of the staff. They all said they were simply astonished by the courage and strength she showed during her final days.

She was an angel and will be missed by anyone that came into contact with her.

Kai has given her strength to me and although I'm very sad to see her go, I'm also happy because she now has no pain and the cancer can no longer attack her. And it will never touch her mind and soul.

I feel that words cannot describe how incredible Kai was... but she has taught me to be a better person and also the meaning of true love. Nobody will ever take that away from me.
Take care and thank you to every one of her friends for your support during her fight against cancer.
Best Wishes,
Tim

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我想到楷瀛丁丁樂癌日記BLOG上面的哪首Nine Million Bicycles 九百萬輛腳踏車

There are nine million bicycles in Beijing .
他們說 北京有九百萬輛腳踏車
That's a fact. 這是個事實
It's a thing we can't deny. 無論誰都不能否認
Like the fact that I will love you till I die. 就像我會永遠愛你一樣真
We are twelve billion light years from the age. 我們距離宇宙的邊緣有120億光年
That's a guess. 這是個猜測 No-one can ever say it's true 沒有人能夠證實
But I know that I will always be with you. 但我知道 我將永遠陪在你身邊
I'm warmed by the fire of your love everyday. 你的愛火 溫暖著我的每一天
So don't call me a liar. 別說我騙人 Just believe everything that I said.
請相信 我說的 每句話

為了不讓愛我的人傷心　去作了大腸鏡檢查
之後再把大腸鏡檢查過程寫分享給大家
Thank you , Mrs.& Mr.Smalley